The Paradox of Change
3 Therapists, one Honest Conversation about Friendship, Intimacy and Sex!
At The Paradox of Change, Lottie, Fifi, and Elliot offer a unique blend of therapeutic expertise. Lottie specialises in psychosexual and relationship therapy, Fifi focuses on business coaching for therapists, and Elliot provides compassionate individual counselling. Together, we guide you through friendship, intimacy, and self-discovery, fostering meaningful change.
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His Bills. Her Load. No Sex. Who Is Right?
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We unpack why the “mental load” debate hits so hard in a sexless marriage, and why one partner’s silence is not the absence of responsibility. She often carries the micro load: noticing, planning, remembering, anticipating what might go wrong. He often carries the macro load: work, money, safety, t
Can an Affair Be Understandable in a Sexless Marriage? A Therapist Deep Dive
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Can infidelity be wrong but understandable is a complex question that therapist Elliot Burgess and Lottie Passell-Syms delve into in this deep dive discussion. For men in a sexless marriage, the lack of intimacy can lead to emotional disconnection and touch deprivation, also known as skin hunger. Th
Can an Affair Be Wrong and Still Be Understandable? Hits different when your'e Therapist
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Can we understand why an affair happens? What are the precursors we're often blissfully unaware of, and who's responsible once the realisation hits? A therapist's view. Lottie and Elliot break down a scene from Hope Gap: a husband who has been unhappy for 29+ years, and the moment he finally finds
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